Many times it’s so tough to gauge the depth of human mind, its ability to think and judge. Specially so, when it comes to measuring the depth of a man’s mind.
When a woman thinks it is right, he assumes it to be left. When she says it’s night, he assumes she must have closed her eyes, hence sees darkness all around. When she says “it pains”, he assumes she is tender, so she feels the pinch like a stab.
Yes, a man only assumes facts about a woman. Be it the size of her bra to her heartfelt desires, fears and pains. And when a woman complains that she is misunderstood, a man says, “We don’t understand hints and whispers, we understand words, loud and clear.” But irony is that whenever a woman speaks her heart out, he claims, “she cribs a lot.” However, a single sensuous hint is heard like a bang on the door. Strange!
When a woman needs advice, she doesn’t need to ask for any and her man showers a bucketful of advice on her. But, when she tries to advise him, he says,”‘I don’t need that. Honey, stop acting like my mum.”
He never asks whom you are talking with or meeting outside home. He says he gives you space and keeps a close watch on you. But, hates being watched or followed himself. He seeks “space” for himself. A space untrespassed and unexplored.
He is a chauvanist, however educated and outgoing he is. He wants his woman to take his surname, to clean the house and cook for him (even after office), call up his family on festivals (even if he doesn’t bother to do the same with the woman’s family) and to make her wear traditional outfit in the presence of his family (even if he wears shorts in front of her family).
He is easy to fool, easy to win, easy to lure; but difficult to defeat. Because he is a “man”, a soft nut to crack, but difficult to gulp!