Man’s mind: Tough nut to gulp


Many times it’s so tough to gauge the depth of human mind, its ability to think and judge. Specially so, when it comes to measuring the depth of a man’s mind.

When a woman thinks it is right, he assumes it to be left. When she says it’s night, he assumes she must have closed her eyes, hence sees darkness all around. When she says “it pains”, he assumes she is tender, so she feels the pinch like a stab.

Yes, a man only assumes facts about a woman. Be it the size of her bra to her heartfelt desires, fears and pains. And when a woman complains that she is misunderstood, a man says, “We don’t understand hints and whispers, we understand words, loud and clear.” But irony is that whenever a woman speaks her heart out, he claims, “she cribs a lot.” However, a single sensuous hint is heard like a bang on the door. Strange!

When a woman needs advice, she doesn’t need to ask for any and her man showers a bucketful of advice on her. But, when she tries to advise him, he says,”‘I don’t need that. Honey, stop acting like my mum.”

He never asks whom you are talking with or meeting outside home. He says he gives you space and keeps a close watch on you. But, hates being watched or followed himself. He seeks “space” for himself. A space untrespassed and unexplored.

He is a chauvanist, however educated and outgoing he is. He wants his woman to take his surname, to clean the house and cook for him (even after office), call up his family on festivals (even if he doesn’t bother to do the same with the woman’s family) and to make her wear traditional outfit in the presence of his family (even if he wears shorts in front of her family).

He is easy to fool, easy to win, easy to lure; but difficult to defeat. Because he is a “man”, a soft nut to crack, but difficult to gulp!

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2 thoughts on “Man’s mind: Tough nut to gulp

  1. I am sorry to say, but it is surprising that your knowledge on today’s women is pretty limited.

    The statements look so picked up from personal experienced or some friends may be.

    Have you taken pain to sample some families in the society before launching an attack on what men are about.

    It’s not just men that can be tough nuts but there are women too. Characters exists in both genders.

    Let me take liberty of clarifying few things for you here.

    >When a woman thinks it is right, he assumes it to be left.

    Wrong. Not all men are like that. There are many men who take into account his wife’s points. Sits, analyzes and also admit to being wrong.

    >When she says it’s night, he assumes she must have closed her eyes, hence sees darkness all around. When she says “it pains”, he assumes she is tender, so she feels the pinch like a stab.

    On the contrary women assume too much. We work with facts. More Women live in wonderland, princess stories, heaven made marriage bullshit. No practical approach to life whatsoever.

    >And when a woman complains that she is misunderstood, a man says, “We don’t understand hints and whispers, we understand words, loud and clear.”

    No we also sit and ask to be made understood and clear up things so that next day isnt grumble-some.
    But many women keep things piled up only to hit back later rather than settle things. Many women extract pleasure in launching attacks when situations don’t demand them.

    >However, a single sensuous hint is heard like a bang on the door. Strange!

    I have seen women who raise hell on the house, literally bang the door :), no hints their lady. She has talents to pull up the whole colony into the personal fight.

    > When a woman needs advice, she doesn’t need to ask for any and her man showers a bucketful of advice on her. But, when she tries to advise him, he says,”‘I don’t need that. Honey, stop acting like my mum.”

    Men would go for advise from women only when we find you are practical in advising. When we know that majority of women are impractical and give senseless advises. We dont ask.
    There are very rare women who are practical and we love to take advises from them. They have special respect among men.

    > He never asks whom you are talking with or meeting outside home. He says he gives you space and keeps a close watch on you. But, hates being watched or followed himself. He seeks “space” for himself. A space untrespassed and unexplored.

    Wrong again. Seen women who need to know everything. Passwords, bank account details, pin cards, every god damn communication to the external world to be under her control.
    Seen men who never asked for their gf’s or wife’s email passwords. Never pick up her phone if its ringing, never check her sms in her phone and gave loads of personal space.

    What women end up doing is taking advantage of such men.

    > He is a chauvanist, however educated and outgoing he is. He wants his woman to take his surname, to clean the house and cook for him (even after office), call up his family on festivals (even if he doesn’t bother to do the same with the woman’s family) and to make her wear traditional outfit in the presence of his family (even if he wears shorts in front of her family).

    Super wrong. Seen many men who didnot even ask for his surname to be taken by the women.
    Seen women who wake up at 11:00 while the breakfast is ready by her bed side (made by husband and gone to work).
    Also seen women who do not care a damn to wish the men’s mom on birthday or festival. Forget calling. Even the mom that lives in the same house. But on the other hand she wants her mom to be wished and pampered and bought gifts for.
    Seen men who have never forgotten any event of the women’s family; every tradition remembered and followed while the women just ignored every tradition and event of mans family.

    > He is easy to fool, easy to win, easy to lure; but difficult to defeat. Because he is a “man”, a soft nut to crack, but difficult to gulp!

    That’s what most women think that men can be easily fooled by false tears and bitching. Truth is you are kiddin yourself.

    We are not easy to win once we lose trust in you.

    We are not easy to lure once we start hating your attitude.

    Yes we are difficult to defeat in scenarios when women are actually fighting with the wrong reason and lies. Be truthful and be logical, be practical.. we are easy to defeat. Infact, there might not be a defeat situation, because we love truthful, logical and practical women.

    And we are difficult to gulp because most women end up being selfish and introverts.

  2. Thank you so much for that lenghthy comment. Thanks for your time.

    Well, I am smiling at your thoughts. Seem to be based on your personal experience or may be a friend’s!

    Just like mine. But I agree it happens with both the genders.

    Thanks for throwing light on the man’s perspective.

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